MISTRESS, DOMINA, GODDESS

Domineeriv naine ei ole tänapäeval enam haruldus, kuid siiski leidub neid vähem kui samas positsioonis mehi.

Female Dominatrixes in BDSM are women who take the leading and dominant role in the bedroom. They often go by names like Mistress, Domina, Goddess, etc. A good child has many names, but in addition to the title, a Dominatrix has a responsible role in BDSM.

With power comes responsibility. The dominatrix is responsible for planning activities and games to meet the expectations and needs of the participants. In the world of BDSM, the dominant actually serves the submissive, even though the latter is not directly visible and tangible. But here's another thing - the dominant is responsible for creating boundaries, security, the interests and emotions of the submissive, aftercare, and much more.

Female dominants are certainly not a modern phenomenon. The Marquise de Sade (French writer; June 2, 1740 - December 2, 1814) described female dominants in her works. Her work expanded the understanding of female dominants and BDSM and its cultural meaning. There are other female dominants in history. However, despite the above, it can be said that female dominants are, if not rare, then at least a rare phenomenon (they are clearly in the minority compared to male dominants).

In a sense, male submissiveness in BDSM is still a taboo subject. It does not conform to traditional gender roles, it is accompanied by stereotypes and stigmas, and there is often a fear of being shamed. There is also a common belief that male submissives are often in a similar position in real life, but this is often not true. Many male submissives in BDSM are in an extremely authoritative, responsible and dominant role in their daily lives. Being submissive in BDSM gives them the opportunity to free themselves from the stress and responsibility of everyday life, because the submissive is not responsible, his role does not require leadership, organization, etc.

A woman who takes on the role of a powerful dominant is truly a Goddess, and serving a beautiful Goddess can be a pure joy and a sense of liberation. It is difficult to put into words everything a submissive feels and experiences, and subjective descriptions may differ from mine, but it is in many ways a jumble of different feelings (often opposing - fear vs. excitement).

The Estonian BDSM scene is modest compared to the rest of the world, and it is certainly still a taboo topic in our society that is not talked about out loud. However, surfing the depths of the Internet, you can notice that anonymity gives you the courage to open up, talk about your fantasies, and look for a suitable partner. However, the demand on the market is greater than the supply - there are few dominant women, while there are many more submissive men looking for a suitable partner. And frankly - the prices of the service have skyrocketed (the law of the Republic of Estonia does not prohibit such an offer). Where there is demand, there is also supply.

I would encourage you to open up to your current partner before you start looking for a new (or temporary) partner. Feel free to talk about your fantasies and don't be afraid of being judged - it's not the end of the world. Think about what the worst that could happen is? Your partner may be happy to try, but give them time - the BDSM journey takes time and space to develop, one step at a time.

I hope that AmaraStudio offers many couples the opportunity to realize their dreams and fantasies, because that's the whole point - to offer new opportunities to different couples. And sometimes you can relax a little even on a gray day :)

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